Perfect Relating Live is a three-month coaching package where we walk you through the challenge of getting what you want in life.
It is a comprehensive system for solving life’s most difficult challenges around relating and connection.
It is conceived to work with any relationship–whether personal or professional, and to solve every relationship issue.
Here are the phases:
Phase I: Learning
In this phase, you are going to be learning about your needs at a level you probably have never thought about. You will be getting to the simple, essential core of yourself–to be able to connect that to the world and to others.
You’ll know why you are feeling how you are feeling and what you need to enjoy life even more.
Phase II: Applying the System
Using what you learned about yourself in Phase I, you will begin to connect to others more directly to get what you want.
The practical exercises and worksheets from the first section will enable you to approach and ask for what you want directly but without any hostility or negative emotional content.
You will see even more clearly who is doing what in your life and make effective changes.
Phase III: Handling Conflicts
In this phase, you will learn to handled seeming conflicts in a way that leaves you connected, happy, and hopeful, regardless of the outcome of each potential conversation of conflict.
Perfect Relating Program Details
During the system, you will learn:
- Why it is often more useful to think of Relating as a process vs a ‘thing’ – the noun or object of “relationships”
- The three fundamental parts of relating you were never taught (One of them doesn’t even involve the other person and is usually left out)
- Why an abundance of people, resources and channels for meeting your needs exists (even if you now feel that you have to fight for crumbs of love and attention)
- The nine main needs that we all have (some of which you may not know you have)
- How your feelings provide a perfect roadmap (like warning lights on the dash) about which needs are not getting met
- The three main blocks to recognizing your feelings and the needs behind them.
- A handy way to look at emotions so that you don’t get confused about powerful emotions that may be distracting you from actual needs, leaving them unsatisfied.
- The main reasons most intimate relationships do not satisfy us deeply, long-term
- Reasons we don’t express our needs in relating
- Why we don’t negotiate effectively in relating (and ...how ‘no‘ is the beginning of the conversation, not the end!)
- How to get others to want to fulfill your needs through the “Magic Wand” method…and more!
The system contains exercises to do yourself to release pain and old emotion, to get clear on your beliefs and feelings, and get ways to move these forward and out of your field.
Most importantly, you are supported every step of the way in answering your questions and keeping you focused in doing those things it takes to go from relationship beginner to master of relating.
This is the system we all needed as young people but never got.
To start with with a free, no-commitment chat to find out if Perfect Relating is right for you, contact us using the contact form.