I was blessed to be born into a family where communication wasn’t optimal–to say the least. People didn’t say what they meant nor mean what they said.

We responded to each other out of fear and scarcity.

Anger and harsh words were common.

Depression and sadness were mom’s go-to’s.

On this foundationless foundation, I built several unsuccessful romantic relationships.

After they all came crumbling down, I began a search that took me around the world and deep into myself.

After countless teachers, trainings, sessions, and spending a fortune on it all, it finally hit me. Sitting in my bathtub in Vienna.

Relationships only have three pieces:
1. Knowing what you want.
2. Asking for it and
3. Negotiating

That’s it.

That’s all you will do in any relationship you ever have with anyone. From the Starbucks cashier to your most intimate partner or your children.

Now, we have been mis-trained to do all three of these things, or told not do them at all.

As a result, many of us find ourselves incredibly frustrated with our relationships. Usually the most intimate ones are the most frustrating, because we feel like we should be getting our needs met within them, but it doesn’t happen.

I spent the next few years creating and refining the system that can bring us back to:

1. Knowing what we want
2. Asking for it, powerfully and confidently
3. And negotiating effectively

…to get your needs met

And I share it as a foundation for moving us forward in relationships.

Would you like to know more?

Perfect Relating–How to Know What you Want, Ask for It, and Negotiate (to maximize your chances of getting all your needs met)

I will be sharing it starting on April 16th. It will be online, using Zoom. It will include six weeks of material (five of course content plus a bonus week).

We will meet for an hour at 5PM PST each of those days. And we will work on you receiving your biggest desire by using this process.

Oooooh! Exciting! Maybe even scary?

Don’t worry. I’ll be doing it with you!

And, if your greatest heart’s desire feels too big for now, we can pick something a little smaller to start with.

I’ll teach you the process.

I’ll guide you through the steps.

And, at the end of it, you will have:

1. An actual conscious system of relating (instead of relying on your past programming and habits)
2. A way to check which step isn’t working and how to figure out why
3. A path to get your needs met in relationships by mastering each step
4. Processes to help people you love learn to get their needs met more effectively